At a time like this, it’s important not to dwell on the love that’s been lost but to be grateful for the time that we had. Sometimes a flame burns too hot and too fast to endure the length of the candle. I wish that everything hadn’t ended so close to the holidays, as that’s a tough time to deal with heartbreak, but that’s how these things go sometimes. Guys, Friday, November 1st 2013, Courtney Stodden and Doug Hutchinson ended their two and a half year marriage. You may remember Doug from Lost or the X-Files. You may remember Courtney from being Doug’s child bride or from Big Brother 12 UK. I remember them from the lessons they’ve taught me, like, true love doesn’t last forever. True love knows no societal boundaries. True love is creepy.True love yields fruit, like Doug and Courtney’s dog, Dourtney. I am so grateful for Doug and Courtney for sharing their love and though I’m devastated I’m focusing on the good times not on what has been lost.